Load Minimization Theory (LMT) shifts focus from individual optimization to the relational stability that emerges between agents. This paper formally defines Relational Stability through two synchronized dimensions — Structural Synchronization (S_st) and Emotional Synchronization (S_em) — together with the Respectful Re-Tagging Operator (ℛ). We present a dynamical model demonstrating how respectful interaction continuously reduces total load L = U + F + E, guiding the relationship toward shared

